Okay I know we are still made about the crap that happened on WTE, but I need advice.
My Aunt is renting a cabin about an hour away from home and a bunch of my family will be there. She wont be here for Christmas so she wanted to get the normal bunch that would be there. My husband is going to be deployed before Xanders birthday so I asked a while back when we should do his birthday party. They are the ones that suggested doing it before he leaves, meaning December. Well my grandma suggested we do in the weekend at the cabin. I said i would decide who else to invite and my aunt wanted to know who I wanted there because she thought I would just do family only. I told her I wanted his grandparents (aka the hubbys parents) there and maybe the couple that I work for. She said that was fine. Then she texts me tonight that my grandma only wants immediate family there. Are you freakin kiding me. I seriouly can't invite his grandparents? Are 2 extra people going to make a difference. I had already said the others weren't a MUST. So I told her it was to hard planning a brithday at a place I didn't know anyways so we wouldn't do it. I don't want a arty with them if they are this petty. Am I being silly and depriving Xander of a big party? Be honest I can take it.
My Aunt is renting a cabin about an hour away from home and a bunch of my family will be there. She wont be here for Christmas so she wanted to get the normal bunch that would be there. My husband is going to be deployed before Xanders birthday so I asked a while back when we should do his birthday party. They are the ones that suggested doing it before he leaves, meaning December. Well my grandma suggested we do in the weekend at the cabin. I said i would decide who else to invite and my aunt wanted to know who I wanted there because she thought I would just do family only. I told her I wanted his grandparents (aka the hubbys parents) there and maybe the couple that I work for. She said that was fine. Then she texts me tonight that my grandma only wants immediate family there. Are you freakin kiding me. I seriouly can't invite his grandparents? Are 2 extra people going to make a difference. I had already said the others weren't a MUST. So I told her it was to hard planning a brithday at a place I didn't know anyways so we wouldn't do it. I don't want a arty with them if they are this petty. Am I being silly and depriving Xander of a big party? Be honest I can take it.